Love Lotion: Homemade Lubricant Recipe

Love Lotion - Homemade Lubricant |

Homemade Love Lotion

 Things are about to get a little frisky in here….


Today, I give to you my favorite all natural, homemade lubricant recipe.

Just in time for Valentine’s Day, I may add ;)

  Homemade Lubricant Recipe |

What’s wrong with most lubricants?

Have you ever checked the back of a lubricant bottle?! Most are filled with toxic chemical ingredients that can harm your health and even your fertility.


Toxic chemical lubricants can:

  • Increase vaginal infections
  • Disrupt hormone production
  • Feed candida which increases yeast infections
  • Kill vaginal flora
  • Decrease fertility  

(Read more about why lubricants are so harmful HERE and HERE)


I don’t know about you, but I don’t want any of those toxic ingredients down in those parts.


So here’s my super simple recipe for my homemade lubricant. Not only is this homemade lubricant recipe all natural and safe, but it’s filled with nourishing ingredients that are actually beneficial to your skin and healthy for your nether-regions. This also makes the best sensual massage lotion. And I might add that I think it would make a great gift to give to your hunny!

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Love Lotion Recipe


1/3 cup coconut oil (Find HERE)

2 tablespoons beeswax (Find HERE)

5 drops Sensual Synergy Blend Essential Oil (Find HERE)


Melt the coconut oil and beeswax on your stovetop until melted using a double boiler. You can just use a pot of water and a glass measuring cup, too – just put the coconut oil and beeswax in the measuring cup and put the measuring cup in the pot of water.

Once melted, add essential oil. Remove from heat and let cool completely until hardened. You may need to put it in the refrigerator to harden a bit if your house is above 76 degrees. It’s very important for the coconut oil to be hard because it will not whip if it’s liquid.

Once hardened, whip your coconut oil until it’s light and fluffy. I use an immersion blender (THIS one), but a stand or hand mixer works great, too.

Store in a glass jar – I love and use THESE jars for this homemade lubricant recipe. This recipe will keep for as long as the expiration date on your coconut oil (usually over a year or more!)

*Important Note: This love lotion should not be used in conjunction with latex condoms. Coconut oil breaks down latex can make latex condoms ineffective. If you prefer to use condoms, make sure they are non-latex (Like THESE).



I also encourage you to get creative and use my recipe as inspiration for some fun homemade lubricant recipe experimentation:

Want to make it tingly and warm? Try using cinnamon essential oil instead.

Want to make it edible? Try adding a little honey and peppermint like THIS recipe.

Want to create a yummy dreamsicle flavor? Add a little honey and some orange and vanilla essential oil.


Click HERE to Pin this homemade lubricant recipe on Pinterest!

Homemade Lubricant Recipe |

Have you ditched your toxic lubricants yet? Hope you all have fun with this recipe ;)




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19 Responses to Love Lotion: Homemade Lubricant Recipe

  1. Kristen says:

    I think you should add a note to NOT use it if you use condoms for birth control. Oils cause latex to breakdown fairly rapidly.

  2. CJ says:

    please forgive me if I missed it. I have read 3 times and do not see at what point you add essential oil to recipe. Can you share when to do that please?
    Thank you for this awesome idea and recipe!

  3. Catherine Dorsey says:

    thank you for this. I have been looking for something with no chemicals.

  4. Britni says:

    Do you think YL Sensation would be ok instead of Sensual Synergy? Thank you :)

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  6. Lea says:

    I followed the recipe exactly and all I have is a big mess!!! I can’t get it off my hands or kitchen tools!! What did I do wrong???

    • What went wrong? Did it never whip? It must be solid to whip – it won’t whip if it’s liquid. And it takes awhile to get it to whip. If you are using a stand mixer, it can take 10 minutes or longer!

  7. Amy says:

    I LOVE this idea!! I wonder if this would work if you make it, after whipping it (or even before) into drops. I’ve seen a post about making coconut “dots” to use in oil pulling. It makes it easier to get just enough without “contaminating” the rest of it. I think basically you just melt it, let it harden a bit, then put, say, in a plastic baggie and cut off one corner. Then squeeze out onto wax paper, put into fridge to set, and then store them in a jar.

  8. patty says:

    i want to try this, but i have hygiene/ health concerns of using this as a vag. lubricant. is it okay to use it for that as well as for skin massage. is it greasy/oily? do i need to put a towel down?
    also could doterra whisper essential oil be added for the scent instead of your recommended synergy oil? thanks

  9. Gretchen says:

    Do you know how this potentially affects fertility? I can only use the preseed lubricant anyway (every other lubricant gives me a yeast infection), but before I try this I’d want to know if it would get in the way of my hubby and I attempting to get pregnant.

  10. Rebecca says:

    You mentioned not to use this on latex condoms. The problem is, ALL latex condoms on the market (that I can find) have lubrication! Isn’t the point of making it myself to avoid the lubrication?

    I am surprised that there aren’t non-latex/non-lubricant condoms out there. People are allergic to those!

    The one you linked to has lubrication.

    Any ideas?

    • Michelle says:


      The lubrication on latex condoms is not oil based. I’m not sure what it is (probably some petroleum by-product), but that’s how there can be lubricant on latex condoms.

      And actually, there ARE non-latex condoms out there. There are of course the natural lamb skin condoms, but if one is using condoms for disease prevention, you shouldn’t use lamb skin condoms because they are porous. If you want a non-latex condom, they do make them. Instead of latex, they use polyisoprene. Several of the larger condom manufacturers have now jumped onto the wagon of latex-free.

  11. Kirsten says:

    I like the idea of whipping the oil, good tip. I am curious though, with other body oils that I have mixed for my skin, they turn to liquid when it is warm, and then back to solid. Does the beeswax stop the coconut oil from doing this? Does the whipped stuff revert back to liquid? Great idea, thanks

  12. lorinda says:

    This is great!you actually don’t even need the beeswax! If you want the warming sensation you can do organic vegetable glycerine. It gets warm with use and with blowing.sorry if tmi!lol! This combinaton will not affect fertility other than to make things much more moist and cozy feeling which makes it easier for sperm to make their way upward.

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